FAQs

What makes an Anteros proposal experience unique?

Anteros specializes in bespoke and surprise proposals designed with emotional precision, privacy and timeless style. Each experience is created from a deep understanding of who you are and how you wish to express love. We plan every detail from the setting and timing to the atmosphere and sensory elements, ensuring your proposal unfolds naturally and feels entirely your own. Clients choose Anteros for our ability to combine discretion, luxury and creative storytelling into one seamless experience.

Can you help me plan a surprise proposal in Amsterdam or elsewhere in Europe?

Yes. Surprise proposals are at the heart of what we do. While we focus on Amsterdam at the moment, we are happy to see if we can help you elsewhere in Europe. We design the entire experience around secrecy, timing and emotional impact. Our team coordinates everything in advance, ensuring that your partner is truly surprised while you remain completely at ease. Every element from location scouting to on site coordination is executed with precision and care.

Do you provide decoration and styling for the proposal?

Every Anteros proposal includes the possibility of professional styling and decoration to create the perfect atmosphere. We design cohesive visual environments that reflect your relationship and the tone you wish to convey, whether minimal and elegant, warm and intimate or lavishly romantic. Our team handles lighting, floral arrangements and design accents so that the moment feels both natural and extraordinary.

Do you work with florists and photographers?

Yes. We collaborate with some of the most talented florists and photographers in Europe who share our standards of discretion and refinement. Our florists design arrangements that elevate the environment without overpowering it, using seasonal and locally sourced blooms. Our photographers specialize in capturing the authenticity of the moment, ensuring that your proposal is documented with sensitivity, style and complete privacy. We also work with videographers if you wish to preserve the story as a film rather than a series of still images..

Can you arrange private chefs or exclusive dinners?

Absolutely. Food and atmosphere play an essential role in many of our experiences. We can organize a private chef to create a personalized menu or secure a private dining space in one of Amsterdam’s or Europe’s best restaurants. Each dining experience is tailored to the couple, from intimate candlelit dinners in hidden courtyards to multi course tasting menus with wine pairings. Our goal is to make the meal an organic part of the moment, not an afterthought.

Can you help with accommodations and travel arrangements?

Yes. We often assist clients with accommodation recommendations and travel logistics, ensuring that every part of their stay supports the overall experience. We coordinate directly with five star hotels, boutique stays and private villas, preparing the room for your arrival and aligning the schedule with your proposal plan. This seamless integration ensures that from the moment you arrive to the moment you propose, every detail feels effortless.

Do you work with jewelers to source engagement rings?

We do. Anteros collaborates with trusted jewelers who specialize in bespoke engagement rings and fine jewelry. Whether you are designing a custom diamond ring or selecting a piece from an existing collection, we guide you through the process with taste and discretion. Our goal is to ensure that the ring perfectly reflects your partner’s style and the emotion of the moment, an enduring symbol of your commitment.

Can you secure exclusive venues or locations for the proposal?

Yes. Our network grants access to exclusive and private locations in Amsterdam and throughout Europe, from historic canal houses and rooftop terraces to secluded gardens and waterfront properties. For international clients, we arrange destination proposals in cities such as Paris, Venice and Santorini. Each venue is selected for its aesthetic harmony, privacy and emotional resonance, allowing your moment to unfold in a setting that feels both extraordinary and entirely yours.

Can I request a completely custom proposal concept?

Of course. Many of our clients come to us with a feeling rather than a plan. We begin from a blank page and develop a concept that expresses your unique story. This bespoke co creation process ensures that every element, including location, design, dining and timing, aligns seamlessly with who you are. We turn your vision into reality with discretion, elegance and flawless execution.

How discreet can you be in your work?

Discretion is at the heart of everything we do. At Anteros we work quietly, attentively and without taking the spotlight. Our role is to make the moment flawless while remaining unseen. We coordinate every element behind the scenes so that you can be fully present and your partner experiences the moment as entirely natural. We do not draw attention, interfere or reveal our involvement. Our online presence is intentionally minimal, and we share nothing of our clients or their stories without explicit permission. Many of our most beautiful moments will never be shown publicly, and that is precisely as it should be.